The Spring UAE Editing Team: Gönan Premfors arrived in the U.A.E. in 1988 followed by Johan Premfors in 1992 and both have witnessed remarkable change in the country over the decades. The constant threads have been safety, hospitality, and innovation and U.A.E. nationals are both friendly and forgiving which allows for foreigners to be less than perfect - so don’t worry about getting everything right (because you won’t).
So, you've landed in the dazzling UAE, ready to soak up the sun, seal some deals, or maybe even find your own personal genie in a bottle. Fantastic! But before you dive headfirst into the land of shimmering skyscrapers and ancient traditions, let's talk etiquette. Because while the UAE is incredibly welcoming, a little cultural savvy can go a long way in ensuring you don't accidentally commit a faux pas that leaves you redder than a Dubai sunset.
Think of this as your friendly, slightly irreverent, cheat sheet to navigating the beautiful, and sometimes bewildering, world of Emirati customs. We're not here to scare you, but to arm you with the knowledge to charm your hosts, impress your colleagues, and generally avoid any "did I really just do that?" moments.
Dress the Part (Without Melting)
Let's start with the obvious: clothing. The UAE is a Muslim country, and while the dress code isn't as strict as some might imagine, modesty is key, especially during the holy month of Ramadan.
- For the Ladies: Think loose-fitting clothing, covering shoulders and knees. Showing too much skin can draw unwanted attention. When visiting religious sites like mosques, you'll need to cover your hair.
- A light scarf is always a handy accessory to keep in your bag. For the Gents: Shorts are generally acceptable in tourist areas, but long pants are preferable for business meetings or more formal occasions. Avoid sleeveless shirts in professional settings.
Remember, it's hot here. Like, really hot. Opt for breathable fabrics like cotton and linen to stay cool and comfortable while respecting local customs.
Dress modestly when visiting religious sites, like the breathtaking Sheikh Zayed Grand Mosque in Abu Dhabi.
Greetings and Gestures: A Handshake and a Smile (Maybe)
The way you greet someone can make or break an interaction. Here's the lowdown:
- Handshakes: Generally acceptable between the same sex. However, a Muslim man or woman may not always extend her hand to someone of the opposite sex. In that case, a polite nod, a smile or putting your hand on your heart are perfectly appropriate.
- Kissing: Avoid public displays of affection with your significant other. Save it for the privacy of your own space.
- The Left Hand: Traditionally considered unclean, avoid using your left hand to eat, pass objects, or shake hands.
- Pointing: Refrain from pointing directly at someone. It's considered rude. Use an open hand gesture instead.
Dining Dos and Don'ts: From Dates to Demeanor
Food is a central part of Emirati culture, and sharing a meal is a sign of hospitality and friendship. Here's how to navigate the dining table with grace:
- Accepting Dates and Coffee: It's customary to be offered dates and Arabic coffee upon arrival. Accept with your right hand (remember the left hand rule!). Coffee is usually served in small cups and you can politely decline more by gently shaking your cup from side to side.
- Eating with Your Hands: In traditional Emirati meals, it's common to eat with your hands, using only your right hand to handle the food. Don't worry, you won't be judged for using cutlery if you're not comfortable with this.
- Ramadan Etiquette: Not even a decade ago restaurants in the U.A.E. would be closed during the day, and non-Muslim would eat behind curtains or designated areas away from those who fast. Those days are gone, but eating, drinking, and smoking in public during fasting hours are still considered disrespectful.
Accepting dates and Arabic coffee is a sign of respect and appreciation.
Business Matters: Patience and Politeness
- Punctuality: While things might not always run on a strict schedule, try to be on time for meetings. It shows respect for your counterparts.
- Small Talk: Before diving into business, engage in some friendly small talk. Ask about their family, their well-being, or their interests.
- Hierarchy: Be aware of the hierarchical structure in Emirati businesses. Show respect to those in positions of authority.
- Negotiation: Be prepared for negotiations to take time. Patience is a virtue. And remember, maintaining a polite and respectful tone is essential, even when discussing difficult topics.
General Decorum: A Few Extra Tips
- Photography: Always ask for permission before taking photos of people, especially women.
- Loud Music and Noises: Be mindful of noise levels, especially in residential areas and during prayer times.
- Respect for Religion: The UAE is an Islamic country. Show respect for religious customs and traditions.
- Tipping: Tipping is customary in the UAE. A general rule of thumb is to tip 10-15% for good service in restaurants and cafes.
Embrace the Experience
Ultimately, the best way to navigate UAE etiquette is to be respectful, observant, and open-minded. Don't be afraid to ask questions and learn from the locals. The vast majority of Emiratis are incredibly welcoming and willing to share their culture with visitors. So relax, embrace the experience, and enjoy the magic of the UAE!
Engage with the locals, and the countless other nationalities, and learn about their culture. You'll be surprised in so many ways.
By following these simple guidelines, you'll be well on your way to having a memorable and respectful experience in the UAE. Now go forth, explore, and create some unforgettable memories! Just remember to keep the left hand to yourself and maybe pack an extra scarf. You'll thank us later.